Day Seven - Sorry seems to be the hardest word

I always enjoy a good biography. Even more than a good biography I enjoy a good biopic. There have been some good ones released recently, but – in my humble opinion – none better than the story of Elton John portrayed in Rocketman.

In a recent interview, Elton John said that the producers of the film wanted to water down all the sex and drugs references, but he insisted on a warts and all presentation and this adds to the authenticity of the story as portrayed on the big screen.

There is a very clever medium used to get the story across as Elton John himself tells the story as if in a group therapy session. He enters this session in one of his magnificent stage costumes, hiding his real self in the guise of devil, and as the film progresses the costume is gradually stripped off until he is left in a bathrobe and opening up to who he really is. It’s a tale of his struggles with alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, bulimia, and more.

Elton John’s warts and all story includes the difficulty he had in many relationships in his life – his dad, his mum, his agent, his wife – and also includes a scene in the film where he acknowledges the hurt he caused his songwriting partner Bernie Taupin. The song that accompanies the scene where this drama is played out is Sorry seems to be the hardest word. How appropriate! Although, I must be point out, that Bernie and Elton to this day remain the best of friends and ‘like close family’.

I think anyone will acknowledge that when you have been hurtful, or insensitive, or rude, sorry is the hardest word to say. But giving an apology does seem to release you from the indiscretion that hangs over you. This is also the behaviour that the Bible encourages you to replicate.

So when you are offering your gift at the altar, if you remember that your brother or sister has something against you, leave your gift there before the altar and go; first be reconciled to your brother or sister, and then come and offer your gift. – Matthew 5:23-24

Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace, and work to maintain it. - Psalm 34:14

Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. - Ephesians 4:32

Graceful God, sorry seems to be the hardest word. I am sorry about the hurt I have caused. Forgive me and restore me to a right relationship with you and with those around me. Amen.

Neil Chappell